If you love her, then fight the good fight

You know what I don't get about guys? They think they know everything. They think that their way is the only right way to do things. Our decisions (ladies) isn't taken as seriously as their decisions. They think that they're thinking logicially when really they're thinking stupidly. Ok, so let me backtrack a little. Let's say a guy loves you, like really loves you. He does some things that hurts you, like stupid immature things, but because you love him, you forgive him and move on. So, this guy who's completely in love with you sees that his actions are hurting you. So instead of changing his actions, he completely backs out because he "loves you so much", he doesn't want to keep hurting you.
Ok, lets just pause right there. Isn't love something you have to keep fighting for? It's evident that relationships aren't perfect, but guess what? They're not supposed to be, and that's the beauty of it. One day I was watching an episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Buffy was talking to her friend Willow about her past relationship, and she said something that really hit home. She said, "I know it's nuts, but part of me believes that real love and passion have to go hand in hand with pain and fighting.", and I completely agree with her. It's literally everything that I'm trying to say here in a nutshell.
Back to the scenario, so the guy loves you so much that he doesn't want to keep hurting you, and it's very mature of him to realize what he's doing, but why back out now? He's already in this deep, so keep going. The whole point of realizing your mistakes is to FIX them, to CHANGE what you're doing not to just sweep them under your bed, and never look at them again. No, to the guys, take those mistakes throw them in the trash can, take that bag of trash out, and put a fresh trash bag in that trash can. In other words, don't back out, start fresh. If you love someone, really love them, then fight the good fight because all we want (ladies) is to feel like we're worth fighting for.